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School of Rock Bedford
12 Court Road
Bedford, NY 10506
(914) 234-0418

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  • Tuesday: 1 PM - 8 PM
  • Wednesday: 1 PM - 8 PM
  • Thursday: 1 PM - 8 PM
  • Friday: 1 PM - 8 PM
  • Saturday: 10 AM - 5 PM
  • Sunday: Closed

Music programs at School of Rock Bedford combine one-on-one lessons with group band practices

Expand your musical knowledge at School of Rock Bedford which serves Marlboro and surrounding areas including Bedford Hills, Katonah, Chappaqua, Mount Kisco, Pound Ridge, and Armonk with quality music lessons taught by real, practicing musicians. Students can learn everything from keyboard to piano, bass to drums, and much more by developing their skills in a supportive learning environment. Aspiring artists can then go on to perform at local music venues such as the Daryl's House Club.

Programs we offer

Performance music program for teens in Bedford
Ages 8-18

The Performance Program at School of Rock Bedford is our hallmark music program, where tens of thousands of students enroll each year. It consists of a weekly group rehearsal where kids and teens learn by playing rock music's most iconic songs with a band composed of their peers. Students are assigned songs and parts that are tailored to them based on their age, experience and ability to learn new skills and concepts. Students then work through their parts in weekly private music lessons, refining the skills and concepts that those songs introduce. The goal of this curriculum is to prepare kids and teens for live performances. Every few months, School of Rock Bedford Performance Program students take the stage and play at local Bedford music venues in front of a live audience.

What To Expect

The Path to Take the Stage

School of Rock Bedford's music programs for kids and teens are designed to inspire by getting students on stage and performing. All of our other music education programs focus on readying students for our famous Performance Program. This is where students develop incredible musical skills. Performance Program students have often gone through our Rock 101 program first or have some previous basic music experience. These young musicians will have custom development plans outlined by their instructors with key concepts reinforced during private lessons and group rehearsals, all with the goal of performing live at a Bedford music venue.

Age 12 and over

Our Songwriting program for kids and teens teaches the fundamentals of songwriting, arrangement and music theory, and helps students compose original works.  At School of Rock Bedford, songwriting students receive one weekly private lesson where they learn concepts, technique and theory on an instrument of their choice. These principles are then applied in a weekly group lesson where students work together on songwriting exercises and lyrical workshops.  Every few months, Songwriting students take the stage to perform or band together to record their original songs.

What to Expect
  • 1 weekly private lesson
  • 1 weekly group lesson

The Path to Take the Stage

Our Songwriting program for kids and teens in Bedford is designed to create musical proficiency through the creation of original music. Students at School of Rock Bedford who have completed our Rock 101 program can move to our Songwriting program once they’re ready. Additionally, new students who have prior experience with and basic knowledge of an instrument can also begin Songwriting. The program culminates with a live showcase where students perform their original compositions in bands at a local music venue. Students taking the Songwriting Program online will remotely record their original songs to produce a demo of the class's music.

Remote student playing guitar
All Ages

At School of Rock Bedford, our students can take online, one-on-one music instruction from the comfort of their homes. We call this program School of Rock Remote. This online music program contains weekly one-on-one instruction conducted by our expert School of Rock instructors in a safe virtual lesson room.
Students will receive their training using our proprietary education program, The School of Rock Method™, which couples live video lessons with our proprietary Method App™, SongFirst Approach™ and Method Books™. 

What To Expect


All of our music programs for kids, teens, and adults are designed to help students gain amazing musical proficiency. School of Rock’s online music lesson program is no exception. Online guitar lessons, online piano lessons, online drum lessons, online singing lessons and online bass guitar lessons are all offered through the School of Rock Remote online program.

Adult music program in Bedford for students over 18
Adult Program
Ages 18+

School of Rock Bedford's Adult Program is for students over 18 years old who are looking to either improve their musical proficiency or pick up an instrument with no prior musical experience. As with most School of Rock music programs, the Adult Program uses a performance-based music education approach. This means the curriculum focuses on learning music concepts and applying them in a live performance setting. Our Adult Music Program includes one weekly private music lesson and a weekly group rehearsal. Every student at School of Rock Bedford is placed in a band of fellow adults and then assigned specific songs as a way of learning key music concepts and skills. Adult students then take the stage to play at a live show in Bedford.

What To Expect

The Path to Take the Stage

All of our music programs are designed to inspire by getting students on stage and performing, with the goal of building strong musical proficiency along the way. The School of Rock Bedford Adult Program is open to all experience levels and each student will follow a customized learning plan developed by their instructor. Adult students will work together during rehearsal to prepare for a live performance at a real rock venue in Bedford.

House Band program for gigging at local venues in Bedford
House Band
Age 17 and Under

The School of Rock Bedford House Band music program gives students under 18 the opportunity to join a gigging band composed of fellow musicians from their school. These students perform additional live shows throughout the year. All students in the Performance Program have the opportunity to audition for a spot in School of Rock Bedford's House Band. Once selected, House Band members become leaders in their School of Rock community and perform live shows at NY rock venues throughout the year.

What To Expect

The Path to Take the Stage

Performance is the core of School of Rock's educational approach. Therefore, we create additional opportunities for students to perform on stages throughout Bedford and the rest of NY. The House Band music program allows each school's most talented students the opportunity to join a band and play routinely in front of live audiences. Once a member, students will gain real music experience associated with gigging musicians and will become leaders and mentors inside the School of Rock community.

The AllStars national tour features the best child and teen musicians
Age 17 and Under

The School of Rock AllStars Tour takes the very best students from around the world and sends them on a nationwide summer tour across the United States. Less than 1% of School of Rock students are selected each year to represent School of Rock as an AllStar. All Performance Program students are eligible to audition for this prestigious program. The intensive audition process starts off with video submissions followed by live auditions. Once selected, AllStar students will have an authentic touring experience including traveling on a tour bus, doing tour publicity and starring in nightly performances at famous venues and festivals during a two-week tour.

What To Expect

The Path to Take the Stage

Becoming an AllStar is the highest level of achievement for a School of Rock student. They play on legendary stages large and small, including The Knitting Factory, Red Rocks Amphitheatre, The Rock & Roll Hall of Fame, The Troubadour and Lollapalooza. AllStar students often go on to have accomplished careers in the music industry. Former AllStars have gone on to become touring artists, star in Broadway musicals, get signed to record deals, become finalists on talent competitions like "The Voice" and "American Idol" and have other notable roles in the music industry.

Music Lessons in Bedford

Kid learns to play guitar at School of Rock Bedford

Guitar Lessons for All Skill Levels

Beginner Guitar Lessons for Kids

At School of Rock Bedford, we offer beginner guitar lessons for kids. Our expert guitar instructors guide your child from start to finish with private instruction and weekly group band rehearsals. Every instructor at School of Rock Bedford is an experienced musician, and they emphasize foundational music theory and technique when teaching guitar lessons to kids. Unlike other Bedford guitar lessons and programs, School of Rock is designed to get students performing in a band.

Beginner Guitar Lessons for Adults

It’s never too late to learn to play the guitar. Similar to our kids guitar lessons, School of Rock Bedford's beginner guitar lessons for adults utilizes a performance-based curriculum. Our experienced instructors teach adult students through popular rock songs, and teach students to play guitar in a way that’s challenging and fun. We believe the best way to learn is by doing, which is why we combine weekly private guitar lessons with group band rehearsals. At School of Rock Bedford, we teach beginner guitar lessons for adults in our Adult Program. This program gets students performing onstage at a local Bedford venue.

Key Concepts
  • Technique
  • Solos
  • Chords
  • Theory

Intermediate to Advanced Guitar Lessons

As students gain skills and experience, we move them along to more challenging programs at higher skill levels. Intermediate and advanced students take the skills they learned in beginner guitar lessons, and layer on more difficult techniques and concepts. School of Rock Bedford offers advanced guitar lessons for kids and adults that teach by playing challenging classic rock songs and emphasize playing the guitar in a real music venue. Our Bedford guitar teachers will work with each student to develop a custom learning plan.

Kids learn to drum at School of Rock Bedford

Drum Lessons for All Skill Levels

Beginner Drum Lessons for Kids

School of Rock Bedford is the best option for anyone looking to learn the drums. Our beginner drum lessons get kids behind the drum kit and on their way to taking the stage. That’s why at School of Rock Bedford we combine private drum lessons for beginners with weekly band rehearsals—it prepares students to perform live. With years of experience teaching drums in Bedford, our drum instructors teach beginner drum students core techniques, including how to groove, play rudiments and more.

Beginner Drum Lessons for Adults

Our drum lessons for adults are designed to accommodate all skill levels. At School of Rock Bedford, our beginner drum lessons for adults are built for musicians with little to no experience. We teach adults using the same core performance-based education philosophy as our drum lessons for kids—performing with a band accelerates the learning process. Adult students will perform live at a venue in Bedford. Unlike other Bedford drum lessons for beginners, School of Rock combines private drum lessons with weekly band rehearsals so students are ready to play in front of real, live audiences.

Key Concepts

Intermediate to Advanced Drum Lessons

More experienced to advanced drum students need a drum lesson curriculum that builds upon foundational skills and continues to grow musical proficiency. That’s why at School of Rock Bedford, our drum lessons are customized for each student and his or her goals. Our Bedford drum instructors integrate more complex techniques and concepts—intermediary grooves, shifts, meters and more—into a student's individual lessons and group band rehearsal, and will also select more difficult songs for his or her live performances.


Kid learns to sing at School of Rock Bedford

Singing Lessons for All Skill Levels

Beginner Singing Lessons for Kids

School of Rock Bedford offers beginner singing lessons for kids. Our unique, performance-based approach develops students' musical proficiency by preparing them to perform live. At School of Rock Bedford, our vocal coaches are practicing musicians who integrate key music fundamentals—breathing, posture and more—into a curriculum based on performing with a band. Each week, beginner singing students participate in a private singing lesson and a band rehearsal.

Beginner Singing Lessons for Adults

School of Rock Bedford teaches adults how to sing in our innovative Adult Program. Students develop vocal skills at a challenging pace designed to help you see results with every singing lesson. Adult vocalists learn how to keep tempo, stay on-key and master advanced vocal techniques for a powerful and healthy voice. Our curriculum teaches students how to sing by using popular rock songs that emphasize key concepts. Each week, Adult Program students have a private singing lesson for beginners and group band rehearsal.

Key Concepts

Intermediate to Advanced Singing Lessons

At School of Rock Bedford, our singing lessons for kids and adults are designed to help our students reach a high degree of musical proficiency. Intermediate and advanced singers take skills learned from previous singing lessons and layer on more difficult techniques and concepts. Our advanced singing lessons teach students to sing by performing popular rock songs that illustrate a specific vocal concept or technique. We pair weekly private singing lessons with weekly band rehearsals with the goal of getting musicians to perform live in Bedford.

Kid learns to play bass at School of Rock Bedford

Bass Lessons for All Skill Levels

Beginner Bass Lessons for Kids

School of Rock Bedford offers beginner bass guitar lessons for kids that blend weekly private instruction with weekly band rehearsals. This performance-based approach results in a high level of musical proficiency because it engages and inspires students. Every School of Rock bass instructor is a practicing musician in Bedford and teaches bass lessons for kids that get great results. Beginners learn to play bass guitar by using popular rock songs that illustrate key concepts and techniques.

Beginner Bass Lessons for Adults

Adults looking to learn bass guitar can enroll in School of Rock’s Adult Program. No experience is necessary in our beginner bass guitar lessons for adults. At School of Rock Bedford, our experienced, local bass guitar instructors have the patience and skills to help adult students gain musical proficiency. As with all School of Rock music programs, our bass guitar lessons for adults ciriculum is performance-based, and include both weekly private instruction and weekly band rehearsals.

Key Concepts
  • TONE

Intermediate to Advanced Bass Lessons

Our intermediate to advanced bass guitar lessons teach Bedford students the skills they need to become the backbone of a band. Students take skills from previous bass lessons and layer on more difficult techniques and concepts. At School of Rock Bedford, our bass instructors use popular rock songs as a way of teaching students advanced concepts and techniques. We pair weekly private bass lessons with weekly band rehearsals to inspire and engage students throughout the learning process.

Kid learns to play piano at School of Rock Bedford

Keyboard Lessons for All Skill Levels

Beginner Keyboard Lessons for Kids

At School of Rock we teach differently than other music schools in Bedford. Our curriculum is performance-based, meaning that we prepare students to perform. Our piano lessons for beginners combine weekly private instruction with weekly band rehearsals. At School of Rock Bedford, our beginner keyboard lessons for kids take key concepts and music fundamentals—finger placement, scales, key differentiation and more—and teach them through popular rock songs. This approach inspires and engages students, which results in attaining a high level of musical proficiency. Our piano teachers have years of experience teaching music in the Bedford area, and know how to coach and motivate students of any skill level to play the keyboard.

Beginner Keyboard Lessons for Adults

The School of Rock Bedford Adult Program puts beginner keyboard students in a band. Adult Program students in the Bedford area learn to play piano through a combination of weekly private beginner piano lessons and weekly band rehearsals. At School of Rock, our piano lessons give adult students the chance to perform in a band at local Bedford music venues, taking them out of the classroom and onto the stage.

Key Concepts
  • TONE

Intermediate to Advanced Keyboard Lessons

At School of Rock Bedford, our keyboard lessons for kids and adults are designed to help students get results. Intermediate and advanced students take skills learned from beginner keyboard lessons and layer on more advanced piano techniques with concepts. Our local keyboard instructors are all practicing musicians in Bedford, and use popular rock songs as a way of teaching complex skills. We pair weekly private piano lessons with weekly band rehearsals to inspire and engage students throughout the learning process.

Our Experienced Music Teachers

All of School of Rock Bedford’s music teachers are experienced musicians devoted to helping students attain musical proficiency. Our instructors guide students one-on-one to personalize learning, inspire confidence and build social skills.

Music Director Ben Malmed
Ben Malmed
Music Director
Ben Malmed started his career at School of Rock in October 2010 as a 23-year-old and immediately fell in love with the mission and community. Watching students go from the lesson room to the stage, gaining confidence, and having fun continues to be a source of inspiration for him. In 2015, Ben was promoted to Music Director of School of Rock Bedford and named Music Director for AllStars Northeast in 2022.

Music of all kinds is held with great value in Ben's family and notably, his grandparents were professional singers at the Metropolitan Opera. Ben started piano lessons at 5 years old which gave him a strong foundation in music theory, metronome practice, and technique. The switch to other instruments was made easier as he decided to pursue rock music and take up guitar and bass. He eventually studied with some of the world's best musicians at Berklee College of Music.

Ben also works as a studio musician, producer, live sound engineer, bandmate, and performer. His original touring band, Fundimensionals, recorded two albums and performed at many concert venues and festivals before parting ways. They received local airplay on 107.1 The Peak for their song "Deer On The Hutch" and were featured in Relix Magazine.
Studio Coordinator Joe Sabia
Joe Sabia
Studio Coordinator
Joe Sabia is a native of Port Chester, NY and has been teaching private trumpet lessons for over 15 years and regularly performs as a freelance musician. After graduating with honors from SUNY Purchase’s Conservatory of Music, Joe earned a master’s degree in music performance from the Hartt School while on a full scholarship. In his spare time, he arranges pop tunes for his brass groups (can you imagine the intro to “Baba O’Riley” on trumpet?) and teaches himself guitar and bass.

Joe is currently the principal trumpet of The Chappaqua Orchestra and previously held the role of second trumpet / assistant principal with the American Chamber Orchestra and the Yonkers Philharmonic. You may have also seen him play in the orchestra pit at the countless musical theater shows in Westchester and Connecticut, and if you look closely, you might spot Joe in the Amazon Prime series “Mozart In The Jungle”. As for the School of Rock, you can find him in the main office.
Will Burgaleta
Guitar Teacher, Bass Guitar Teacher, Piano Teacher
Not long after his first word was uttered, Will was singing and grooving along to the music of The Beatles, Steely Dan, Frankie Valle and whatever else was in his parents' record collection.

A graduate of Purchase College's Conservatory of Music with a Master's Degree in Studio Composition, Will has always had an engaged and studious approach to music of all styles ranging from blues, boogie, classical, jazz, pop and metal. He brings the same level of dedication and enthusiasm to his teaching style, emphasizing the student, not the method. In addition to being the music director, keyboardist and backup vocalist for Rockland County-based Dark Side of the Hudson Pink Floyd tribute band, Will is an in-demand freelance composer/arranger.

He also performs in several bands, including the eclectic art rock group Diazepam as keyboardist/vocalist, as well as his classic rock cover band Critical Mass where he performs the same duties. Will can also be heard on guitarist/virtuoso Bert Elliot's "Asylum in Playland", where he plays alongside Yankee's legend Bernie Williams, bassist pro Stu Hamm and drummer extraordinaire Atma Anur.
Lou Caldarola
Drum Teacher
Lou Caldarola has been an active member of the music scene for over 30 years and is one of the area's most in-demand session and live drummers. Lou is also an original staff member at School of Rock Bedford. He attended University of Bridgeport, majoring in Music, and studied with Howard Zwickler for a year before leaving Bridgeport to pursue a career in live performance. He has since recorded and performed with multiple original projects. In 1996 Lou joined Connecticut prog-metal band Soundscape and released three albums, "Discovery," "Iago" and "Grave New World." He has a long list of recording credits to date and his live performances number in the thousands. Currently Lou is involved with Kicksville, a national project that defies definition. He also keeps busy playing live with Limelight (the world's longest-running Rush tribute band!), The Furious Bongos Zappa Project, The Joe Gareri Instrumental Project and various other bands and artists. Lou is also an experienced studio engineer, booking agent and manager. He is a drum teacher at School of Rock Bedford.
Michael O'Rourke
Drum Teacher
Michael O'Rourke started playing the drums in the fourth grade. He joined the school band and orchestra, and then started taking private lessons. He played the drums throughout the rest of elementary, middle and high school, participating in NYSSMA and marching band as well. Once in college, he decided to major in English and Journalism with a minor in Film. He kept studying music, though, with various teachers by going to clinics and playing in rock bands with friends. He also took part in several productions on campus that utilized his drumming. Michael has over 10 years of experience teaching private lessons on drums and even a little on bass and guitar. He's taught in various music stores and participated in many workshops that instruct in an interactive way. Currently Mike is playing with two original bands. The first is called Soundswell, which is a jam band based in Long Island and NYC. The other is called Darlene Graham and the Shades of Green Band, which is a children’s music group that plays in the same area. The shows are interactive and fun for the whole family and often take on a theatrical component. He is excited to spread his love for music and drums with students at School of Rock Bedford as a drum teacher.
Guitar Teacher, Bass Guitar Teacher Ted Gottsegen
Ted Gottsegen
Guitar Teacher, Bass Guitar Teacher
Ted Gottsegen holds a Master's in Jazz Performance from SUNY Purchase, has been a full-time professional musician for 20 years, and is well-versed in rock, blues, soul, and jazz techniques. Professionally he's conducted University-level Master Classes, summer camps, workshops, and taught privately. He specializes in pre-WWII jazz: gypsy, hot jazz, big band swing and New Orleans as well as organ bass blues and soul jazz. He loves rock and blues and loves teaching kids the music that they want to learn. Ted has toured all over the world (8 countries and the Middle East through the U.S. State Department, 30 U.S. states, and 3 Canadian provinces). In addition to guitar, bass and intro to drums, he also has experience teaching ukulele, mandolin, violin and trumpet. He loves teaching students of all experience levels, especially when they are excited about learning!
Guitar Teacher, Bass Guitar Teacher David Langan
David Langan
Guitar Teacher, Bass Guitar Teacher
David Langan is a guitarist and songwriter from New York’s Hudson Valley. While currently enrolled in the SUNY Purchase Conservatory of Music, his passion for song started long before that when his parents first showed him rock and roll. He studied music, and specifically guitar under Jason Bowman at the Rock Academy in Woodstock, NY before attending SUNY Purchase. During that time he familiarized himself with the art of guitar and song, learning how to play styles such as funk, folk, rock, metal, and more. After just over a year of playing he was invited to join Rock Academy’s showband, with which he toured the northeast U.S. He has also played his own compositions with previous band Interference in clubs across Albany, Poughkeepsie, and Kingston, before disbanding the project to attend SUNY Purchase. As of March 2022 he is working on continuing to compose with a new group of musicians at SUNY Purchase, and teaching Guitar and Bass at School of Rock Bedford.
Drum Teacher Jack Rago
Jack Rago
Drum Teacher
Jack Rago is a School of Rock / Bedford alumnus, with more than five years of experience in the Performance Program and several years in the audition-based House Band. His versatility behind the kit and commitment to excellence can be heard in several local heavy metal and progressive rock projects that he's been a part of. Jack has also been working in the public school system as a teacher's aide, and looks forward to bringing his passion for music and love for teaching kids back to School of Rock as an instructor.
Guitar Teacher, Bass Guitar Teacher Alan Kingsbury
Alan Kingsbury
Guitar Teacher, Bass Guitar Teacher
Alan is a guitar teacher and bass guitar teacher at School of Rock Bedford. He also owns and operates Haymarket Studios in Beacon, New York. He began writing and performing music with bands in the Denver, Colorado DIY punk and metal community when he was 12 years old. Some of the songs he wrote with his friends while procrastinating doing homework allowed him to make records and tour the world. Alan prioritizes relationships, fun, experimentation, and a process-oriented approach to teaching guitar and bass.
Singing Teacher Whitney Webster
Whitney Webster
Singing Teacher
Whitney Webster is a professional singer, actor, dancer, and teaching artist who is a lifelong believer in the transformative power of the arts. She provides voice lessons, performance coaching, (and a little Ellové Technique® conditioning thrown in for good measure).

Whitney made her professional performing debut at the age of 11. Mindful of the importance of balance, she paused her performance career to pursue higher education with a BFA at Syracuse University and SU Abroad in London (at RADA and LAMDA) before taking a bite out of the Big Apple. Over the 30+ years that followed, Whitney has had the great fortune of appearing on Broadway and at Madison Square Garden and Radio City Music Hall, gracing the stages of Carnegie Hall and Lincoln Center, and touring the great theaters of North America, Europe, Japan, and Hong Kong. She is extremely grateful for the life experiences that have led her to her higher calling, teaching.

Whitney believes that everyone is born with an innate need for creative self-expression. To that end, she has created a multi-disciplinary approach designed for each student’s needs to address their whole well-being by devising customized lessons to empower each artist through joyful self-discovery and collaboration. Whitney strives to nurture the sum of each student's elements to train them as well-rounded artists with a rock-solid technical foundation, a little grit, and a whole lot of joy-seeking.
Guitar Teacher, Bass Guitar Teacher Matt Florio
Matt Florio
Guitar Teacher, Bass Guitar Teacher
Matt Florio is a guitarist, bassist, and School of Rock Bedford alumnus. He participated in the Performance Program and in the audition-based House Band for four years. He is a junior at SUNY New Paltz majoring in Digital Media Production and minoring in Audio Engineering. When home from school, Matt is a guitar and bass instructor for lessons and the summer camp at School of Rock. His love of music spans genres, including funk, funk rock, soul, and alternative rock, with bands like Foo Fighters, Lady Wray, Brittany Howard, Cory Wong, Prince, and Oh He Dead. Matt has been an active band member in several bands around Bedford and New Paltz.
Singing Teacher, Keyboard + Piano Teacher Lily Oyen
Lily Oyen
Singing Teacher, Keyboard + Piano Teacher
Lily Oyen is a singer-songwriter, producer, and multi-instrumentalist from Katonah, NY. She is currently pursuing a Bachelor of Music degree in studio production from SUNY Purchase. Lily has been immersed in music from a very young age, having been classically trained in piano and voice since childhood. Because of this, she truly understands the importance and impact of music education in children and adults alike, and strives to work with all of her students to find passion and joy in their musical journey—whether they’re already experienced or just beginning!
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Shows are a lot of fun.

I was very nervous when I started a Performance Program, but I felt very welcomed and comfortable very quickly. Shows are a lot of fun to be in and the people in them are very nice.

The performance aspect is great.

It is so amazing for the kids to get a chance to be a part of a group and learn what it's like to perform in front of people.

An invaluable experience.

The opportunity for a child/teen to learn an instrument AND play in a band setting culminating in a live performance is an invaluable experience that has no equal.

Our son loves this program.

We loved that he improved so much. He took guitar lessons for four years before School of Rock and didn't really make much progress. In one week at one of the summer camps he improved so much.

Being in a band promotes learning and growth.

"Being in a band has been a great way for my son to learn and grow as a person. He improves musical skills and other life lessons, like what it means to not want to let your band members down, how to make mistakes and move forward, and how to be supportive to others."